Top/Btm Energy, Masc Vibes, and Other Roles We Play EP 708

Gay sexuality is often described in terms of roles — top, bottom, dom, sub, masc, femme — but what happens when those labels feel more like performances than authentic expression? In this episode, the hosts unpack how desire, attraction, and identity get tangled up with performance — from the bedroom to the bar to the apps. Where do our sexual performances come from? How much of our sexual role is natural vs. narrative? The “masc4masc” phenomenon and its roots in performance and insecurity. Lukas Gage says he killed off the flamboyant sides of his life for years....can we relate? The crazy things people say on Grindr...we share Advice: Bottoms: How long do you want a top to last? Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.