Kaila Yu - Author of Fetishized: A Reckoning with  Yellow Fever, Feminism, and Beauty

THE JEREMIAH SHOW Featuring Kaila Yu, Author of Fetishized: A Reckoning with Yellow Fever, Feminism, and Beauty Featuring Gallery Owner Bonnie Rubenstein (RUBENSTEIN CHAN Contemporary Art) with Artist Sijia Chen (SIJIA CHEN ART) 52:31 Kaila Yu - 00:00 In this conversation, Kaila Yu discusses her memoir 'Fetishized,' which explores the fetishization of Asian women, her personal experiences in the entertainment industry, and the emotional toll of societal expectations. The dialogue explores themes of self-acceptance, the impact of parental relationships, and the healing journey through community and music. Kaila emphasizes the importance of confronting uncomfortable topics and the need for empathy and understanding in discussions about identity and beauty standards. Takeaways Kaila's book addresses the historical fetishization of Asian women. The emotional cost of being fetishized can be exhausting and damaging. Parental relationships significantly impact self-perception and identity. Kaila's journey highlights the importance of confronting trauma. Music and community play vital roles in healing. The misconceptions about Asian women often stem from cultural stereotypes. Kaila emphasizes the need for empathy in discussions about identity. The journey to self-acceptance is ongoing and complex. Kaila's experiences reflect broader societal issues regarding beauty standards. The importance of representation in media for self-worth. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Conversation 08:22 Exploring 'Fetishized' and Its Themes 16:51 Understanding Asian Fetishization and Misconceptions 31:47 The Impact of Parental Relationships on Self-Perception 41:38 The Journey of Healing and Self-Acceptance 41:58 The Role of Music and Community in Recovery In a review in The New York Times, Jill Damatac praises Kaila Yu’s book, describing it as an “unstinting and necessary read” that holds up a jaundiced reflection of the West, its past, and present.” Pick up a copy at your local book dealer or here: Penguin Random House | AMAZON | BARNES & NOBLE | WALMART | TARGET Kaila's Website & Social Media https://kailayu.com/ - - - Bonnie Rubenstein & Sijia Chen 52:31 Bonnie Rubenstein discusses the opening of her new art gallery, Rubenstein Chan Contemporary Art, in Carpinteria, California. She introduces the featured artists, Sijia Chen, Chiho Harazaki, and Kaoru Mansour, artists who explore themes of identity, belonging, and human connection in their work. The exhibit, titled 'Unfold', emphasizes the significance of materials and personal narratives in art, inviting viewers to reflect on their own journeys and shared humanity. Takeaways Bonnie Rubenstein is opening a new gallery in Carpinteria. The gallery features artists exploring identity and belonging. Sijia Chen's work uses materials like immigration forms and photographs. Art can transform personal stories into shared narratives. The exhibit 'Unfold' emphasizes the theme of folding paper. The artists bring a multicultural perspective to their work. Bonnie's gallery is located in a historic site with a rich background. The opening night is a significant event for the artists. Art can foster dialogue about shared human experiences. The collaboration between Bonnie and Irene Chan is pivotal for the gallery. RUBENSTEIN CHAN CONTEMPORARY ART - Opening Exhibit "UNFOLD" Reception: September 13, 3:00 - 6:00 p.m. 410 Palm Avenue, B3 Carpinteria, CA 93013 Dates of exhibit: September 13 - October 26 Featured Artists: Sijia Chen, Chiho Harazaki, Kaoru Mansour Website: https://www.rubensteinchan.com/ On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rubenstein_chan Sijia Chen A short film of Sijia’s work, created by the Victoria & Albert Museum, can be seen here: https://tinyurl.com/sijiachen On Instagram @Sijiachenart - https://www.instagram.com/sijiachenart/ Sijia Studio Website: www.sijiachen.com - - - THE JEREMIAH SHOW Voices Carry - These Are Your Stories POP CULTURE, MUSIC ICONS, & FOOD GODS The Jeremiah Show - Please Subscribe & Rate - CLICK HERE Check Out The Back Catalogs of Special Guests - CLICK HERE To Become a Sponsor of The Jeremiah Show CLICK HERE for Media Deck and Rates THE JEREMIAH SHOW BROUGHT TO YOU BY evolve entertainment network - www.thejeremiahshow.com Host | Executive Producer - Jeremiah D. 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