About this episode
2025 Kick Off and Looking for Potential As 2024 draws to a close, we’re left, as usual, staring into the abyss of a new year… upheaval nationally, internationally and even in our tadpole pond of purebred dogs has left all of us off balance at some level. Poised precariously here on my rickety soap box, I hope you’ll join me on a journey of retrospection, through a few glimmers of hope and on to a couple new year’s resolutions. Eight years ago this month, the first Pure Dog Talk episodes dropped just in time for the AKC National Championship shows. I racked up 10s of thousands of steps dropping flyers on every grooming table, interviewing treasures of our sport and gathering support for this novel way of sharing 20th century knowledge in a 21st century way. Pure Dog Talk was the very first podcast dedicated to purebred dogs. Today we have a couple million downloads and have reached nearly 400 thousand listeners globally. Several major corporate sponsors and a couple hundred Patrons keep the lights on and the mp3s rolling so that YOU can stay on top of news, interviews, reviews, events and ideas. We’ve shown up in the AKC Gazette (shoutout and thanks to the Gazette crew!) I just found myself quoted in a TikTok posted to a Reddit “millennials” thread fgs… I love hearing from all of you all the time. About how Pure Dog Talk “saved your life” or made it better or saved your dog’s life. PS We’ve added a page to the website where you can upload your stories complete with photos! Check it out on the Testimonials tab at pure dog talk dot com. If you’d be so kind, indulge me while I take this opportunity for some shameless promotion. If you find Pure Dog Talk has helped you or someone you know, please consider joining our paid Patrons. This funding covers only overhead – website, audio editing and more – not me personally. When I launched the Patrons in 2018, I was paying for the podcast out of my pocket and eating a lot of peanut butter sandwiches. A lot has changed since then (although, I still eat a lot of pb&j). The crowdsourced funds from Patrons of the show have enabled the growth and professionalization of the website, continued the outstanding production values of the pod and made us able to keep growing this resource to reach new audiences. Your Patrons membership adds value to the pod by initiating you into a devoted community of purebred dog enthusiasts including judges, handlers, owner handlers, newbies and master breeders. Patrons only After Dark gatherings each month let us hash out problems, share ideas, stand in community with one another and gain knowledge. Visit https://puredogtalk.com/patron/ and select your Patron Package. You can join us for as little as $10/month or save 10% with an annual Patron membership. Come on over and join the best community in dogs. Aaaaaand, Starting Jan. 3, our new Patrons Only pod, Unleashed, delivers “let your hair down” episodes on all the hot takes in purebred dogs. Mailbag topics, commentary and insight with your favorite guests. In our first episode of the new show, Amanda Kelly joins me with thoughts on "How Not to be a D*ck at the Dog Show”.... Patrons, BOLO an email with access deets!~ And, speaking of new stuff….. We’re SUPER excited to announce that, after EIGHT years in the podcast universe, Pure Dog Talk is spinning off a new pod for you, your puppy buyers, and your sister-in-law’s cousin’s boyfriend. Marty and I bring our own special brand of pet knowledge to the larger pet-loving public in The Marty & Laura Show , launching Jan. 1, 2025 . We are thrilled to share these unique, fun, fact-based conversations about pet health. From pro tips on selecting your new dog to what your cat’s cough means and what you should do about it, we’ll meet you wherever you are (in the car, on the treadmill, walking the dog) and bring you a good laugh, a great story and a bright idea every week. Now that you’re all caught up on the Pure Dog Talk news, let’s get planning for the incoming year. Many, if not most of you, are driving right now, on your way to Palm Springs or Chicago, St. Paul or West Springfield or some other dog event entirely. In just over a month we’ll all be converging on Manhattan and Madison Square Garden for the triumphant return of Westminster Kennel Club to the City (and ps benching!). Reminder! Join us Wednesday, January 8, 5pm pacific for our LIVE@5 podcast with Dr. Don giving us all the final to dos and 411s for the show. Before you know it, the time will come to decide on Louisville or Crufts (or both if you’re slightly crazy). The spring nationals will kick off and then the summer death march circuits and before you know it, it’s back to school, fall national season and the AKC National Championship again… The way dog people organize our lives leaves those outside the tribe baffled and somewhat horrified. How many of us have planned weddings, honeymoons and family vacations around the show or event calendar? Raise your hand. Come on, you know you have… I did, more than once! Have I ever told you the story of getting married on a Saturday and leaving Sunday with my client and my step-mother for the Clumber national? I mean, that’s professional level crazy right there… ;-/ (I might add that is now an EX husband… huh, go figure….) One thing I’m going to offer as a suggestion as we all get ready to hop back on the crazy train…. Life is short, super expensive and often incredibly frustrating all by itself. Adding a hobby like ours to it can exaggerate how short, expensive and frustrating it is. When, not if, you find yourself starting to snap – at friends or dogs or family – it’s probably a good time to take a little break. Maybe go play a different sport for a couple months. Maybe breed a litter and stay home huffing puppy breath for a while. Maybe just curl up with the dogs and loved ones and binge netflix for a weekend… I promise, life will not come to a screeching halt and your mental health will improve exponentially. My second tidbit of advice is: money doesn’t grow on trees. Spend it wisely. Most of all, spend it on a good dog. If you are new to the sport and having a hard time in your search for just such a rare gem, you’ve come to the right place! Giving you the tools, knowledge and community to succeed is literally why Pure Dog Talk exists. My final nugget of insight for today is this. Be happy. Like literally, there’s a song about it and everything. Be happy with your dog. be happy for other people. be happy you enjoy the freedom, financial security and physical well being to participate in dog sports. Being mad about losing a 10 cent ribbon is the firstest of the first world problems I can imagine. We are literally not curing cancer or solving world peace here folks. It’s been a few years since I trotted out the Pure Dog Talk 12-step program to a happier you in the dog world, so I’ll include a link to the full episode in the show notes. But a brief recap will not go amiss this year. These steps apply to our dog world specifically, but can be generalized to daily life without much trouble in three simple rules. Just be nice. Get off your bleeping phone . Learn new things . The 12 steps include a recommendation for each month of the year like offering congratulations and meaning it, watching and learning about other breeds, helping and volunteering, making new friends and more. Take a listen. This plan is proven to bring enhanced enjoyment, satisfaction, curiosity, knowledge, camaraderie and success to anyone’s dog show calendar. In closing, I love this quote from Ellen Goodman “We spend January 1st walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives ... not looking for flaws but for potential.” Just like judging the whole dog instead of fault judging, consider making 2025 the year you find the beauty in yourself, and in everyone else’s dog….. Peace …