793. Are Women Too Successful for Love? The Truth Behind The Modern Dating Crisis

In this episode, K+L sit down with relationship expert + Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury, to decode the new era of dating. We’re diving into modern love, gender roles, and what’s driving the “masculinity crisis”—and trust us, you’ve never heard it explained like this. If you’re wondering why finding a great man feels impossible—or if your standards are too high—get ready for an epiphany. Logan shares data-driven wisdom on emotional intelligence, the myths around “the spark,” and why so many successful women thrive everywhere but love. Logan gets candid about conscious partnership, personal growth, and the spiritual lessons hidden in swiping culture. This episode is your invitation to leave behind outdated paradigms, raise your standards, and create the kind of soul-stretching relationships you actually deserve! We also talk about: Why there aren’t “enough” good men out there How gender expectations are shifting How to avoid playing “therapist” or “mom” in dating Letting go of your “checklist” for love How to spot a “slow burn” vs. chasing sparks Modern dating app hacks that really work Navigating anxious vs. avoidant attachment styles Building chemistry + spiritual connection with someone Women’s independence, fertility conversations + “hypergamy” Tips for sustainable dating—so you don’t burn out Resources: Website: https://loganury.com Instagram: @loganury Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: ⁠ http://bit.ly/Almost30Book ⁠ . Sponsors: Puori | Visit https://Puori.com/ALMOST30 and use our promo code ALMOST30 for 20% off. Evlo Fitness | You can try Evlo FREE for 6 weeks - use code ALMOST30TRIAL at https://evlofitness.com. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to https://hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. BEAM | Visit https://shopbeam.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 to get our exclusive discount of up to 40% off. Chime | Open your account in 2 minutes at https://chime.com/almost30. Revolve | Shop at https://REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner To advertise on this podcast please email: ⁠ partnerships@almost30.com ⁠ . Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: ⁠ almost30.com/disclaimer ⁠ . Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices